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10 Things We Always Wait Too Long to Let Go of in Life

We donā€™t even realize how often weā€™re blocking our own present blessings by holding on so tightly.

Letting go is not giving up. Letting go is surrendering any needless attachments to particular outcomes and situations. Surrender means showing up in your life with the intention to be your best, and to do the best you know how, without expecting life to be ideal. Have goals, have dreams, take purposeful action, and build solid relationships, but detach from what life must look like every step of the way.

The energy of someone aspiring to create something wonderful this year, teamed with a healthy balance of surrender, is far more effective than someone determined to create outcomes with a desperate must-have mentality. Surrender brings inner calmness, awareness, and understanding. And lest we forget that our outer lives are a reflection of our inner state of being.

Thus, take a moment to remind yourself of some things many of us typically attach to long after itā€™s time to let go, so you can loosen your grip on them as you move forwardā€¦ (moreā€¦)

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8 Wake-Up Calls Everyone Needs to Receive in Life Before itā€™s Too Late

You have come a long way, and youā€™re still learning and growing. Be thankful for the lessons. Take them and make the best of things today.

For my 18th birthday, many moons ago, my grandfather on my momā€™s side gave me four lightly-used flannel shirts that he no longer needed. The shirts were barely worn and in great shape; my grandfather told me he thought they would look great on me. Unfortunately, I thought they were odd gifts at the time and I wasnā€™t thankful. I looked at him skeptically, gave him a crooked half-smile, and moved on to the other gifts sitting in front of me. My grandfather died two days later from a sudden heart attack. The flannel shirts were the last gifts he ever gave me, and that crooked half-smile was the last time I directly acknowledged him. Today, I still regret the little thing I didnā€™t say when I had the chance: ā€œThank you Grandpa. I appreciate you.ā€

That was a huge wake-up call for me ā€” one that has served me well for over two decades now.

And here are eight wake-up calls for you to reflect on today ā€” some important lessons worth learning and living by, before itā€™s too late: (moreā€¦)

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10 Tiny Tasks To Help You Declutter Your Home

It might be easy to find articles and information about how to declutter your home, but what about where to start? Or, figuring out how to declutter your home without getting completely overwhelmed and stressed out? I was often searching for the perfect, how to declutter your home solution and hoping for speedy decluttering tips [ā€¦]

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Weekend Favorites: kaffepause, a no-buy year and the best sleep of your life

Weekend Wisdom: Feeling guilty for taking care of yourself is not taking care of yourself. Into the woods. When I hike I often think about John Muirā€™s lovely words, ā€œAnd into the forest I go, to lose my mind and find my soul.ā€ And I always do just what he suggests. Ok ā€¦ onto the [ā€¦]

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20 Things My 80-Year-Old Dad Was Right About

ā€œOne day you will look back and see that all along you were blooming.ā€
ā€” MHN

Twenty-eight years ago, when I was a freshman in high school, my English teacher gave my class a homework assignment entitled, ā€œAdvice for a Younger Generation.ā€ The concept of the assignment was simple: Each student had to interview a person who was over the age of 25, gather enough information to write a basic biography of their life and find out what their top tips are for a younger generation. I chose to interview my dad. He was (moreā€¦)

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We Can Stop Apologizing for These 10 Things Now

Letā€™s stop apologizing for things we donā€™t need to be sorry for. Between our need to please and the way weā€™ve been conditioned to over-apologize, itā€™s no wonder our apologies almost feel like they are on auto pilot. Clutter comes in many forms, from the stuff in our homes to the too many items on [ā€¦]

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10 Ways to Love Yourself the Way Youā€™ve Always Wanted, But Nobody Ever Did

Every desire is a gift from above that contains both the power and the plan of its self-expression. Which means that your longing [ā€¦]

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The 7 Most Important Values to Pass on to Your Children

The secret of a good life is to have the right loyalties and hold them in the right scale of values.” ~ Norman Thomas

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5 Firm Ways to Say No Without Feeling Guilty or Ashamed

Why is it hard to say no? A while ago, a friend of mine asked me to mind their dog for two weeks [ā€¦]

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5 Ways to Let Go of the Past and Embrace the Future

ā€œOne problem with gazing too frequently into the past is that we may turn around to find the future has run out on [ā€¦]

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